"There isn't a time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, Heartburning, calling to accounts. There is only time for loving and but instant, so to speak for that ". Comment on the above statement with references from the passage in not less than 150-200 words.
In the passage " what makes a good life" by Robert waldinger has stated a quote by Mark Twain,"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that."Our life is too short . We don't have time to isolate ourself from others. Wealth and High achivements do not guarantee our good life. Instead people need good relationships and meaningful social connections. It has stated that People who are socially connected with friend,families and communities are physically healthier and they live longer life even their memories stay sharper whereas people who are not socially connected are unhealthy and they live shorter live with weak memories.The loneliness is detrimental to human beings. There is no time for hating, arguing, heartbreaking,etc...There is only time for showering love. Waldinger suggest that as human builds relationships,they should make sure that such relationships that add values to our lifes because a conflict making relationships will hamper our physical and mental well being.As given in the passage ,the happily partnered men and women reported in their 80s having physical pain are just in a happy mood whereas couples who were in unhappy relationships they are having more physical pain due to more emotional pain.Moreover we should spend more time and bullit good relationships with other as the Harvard study has shown that people who performed the best were the people who depend into relationships with friends, families and communities.
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ReplyDeleteAccording to the statement "There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning, calling to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that" it is conveying that there is only time for loving instead for bickering, apologies, and heartburning. There will be high conflict marriages, for example, without much affection, turn out to be very bad for our health, perhaps worse then getting divorced. So, we should give time and love each other. Being in a securely attached relationship to another person in your 80s is protective, that the people who are in relationship where they really feel they can count on the other person in time of need. So, give love to eachother.
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ReplyDeleteIn the passage "what makes a good life" by Robert waldinger has stated a quote by Mark Twain, "There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that." life is determined by the quality of relationship and the social connection. Apart from the quality of relationship the study showed that loneliness kills in our modern society. Loneliness can affect our brain and it will led to physical declines , the study had also showed that having a higher quality relationship is better compared to the number of connection we have.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the quotation,"There isnt a time,so brief is life,for bickering,apologies,heart burnings and calling to accounts.There is only time for loving and but instant,so to speak for that",by Mark Twain,we came to know that we dont have much time for arguments,apologizes,heart burnings and holding grudges as our life is too short and brief for that instead we only got time for loving one and another and cherishing one and another.For example,in the passage,it has been mentioned that people who are having high-conflict marriage lives without much love and affection turn out to be bad for their physical health as well as mental health.People who were in unhappy relationships, on the days when they reported more physical pain,it was magnified by more emotional pain compared to the people who were in happy and loving relationships. That's why,we should love one another and give time to them instead of arguing and forgive eachother instead of holding grudges and having heartburings.We should replace our screen time with people time by doing something new or going on dates or long walks or reaching out to that family member who you haven't talked to in years like mentioned in the passage.Therefore,one should not hold grudges,argue or bicker but one should learn to love everyone as life is very brief.
ReplyDeleteA quote mentioned in the passage "What Make a Good Life" by Robert Waldinger which was stated by Mark Twin ,"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning , callings to account. There is only time for loving , and but an instant, so to speak, for that ". It explains that we don't have much time so we should not waste our time for bickering, apologies and so on but there should be only time for love . And this leads to have a good relationships which will keep us happier and healthier. Social connections are really good for us,and it kills our loneliness as those people who are socially connected to family, friends, community,are happier, physically healthier and also live longer than people who are less connected and are being isolated. It has stated one example that without much affection,turn out to be very bad for our health. In the passage ,it is mentioned that those people who were the most satisfied in their relationship at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80 and it also says that people at 80s ,when they had more physical pains ,their mood stayed just happy. Relationships not only protect our bodies but also protects our brain. The people who are in good relationships have sharp memories whereas people who are in bad relationships have weak memories. Therefore, good life is built with good relationships.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the quote by Mark Twain in the passage that states"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that", means that in our life the time is for short duration and there is no time for bickering, apologies, heartburning and it can isolate us from our friends and family and we won't be able to make bond with them. We should always let go of those things that requires heartburnings and apologies in order to have a good life. People who are socially connected are always physically healthier and they live a longer life. We have to learn to forgive and try to reconnect with our friends and family with whom we share our feelings, emotions and experience. People having a good relationship grew into a happy and healthy octogenarians and people who didn't have a good relationship grew into a unhealthy octogenarian and suffered alot as mentioned in the passage. So therefore we should build a good relationship with others so that we can also grow into a healthy octogenarian.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the quotations by Mark Twain given in the passage titled " What makes a good life" by Robert Waldinget , The Harvard Study of Adult Development conveys that a person's life is too brief or short to waste onto unnecessary actions like bickering , apologies , heartburing ,calling onto accounts for you should put your prestigious time on making love. Love is like a lifesaving jacket when you're drowning . Love can have a various benefits on our health. That is without enough social connection with family, friends and community, you feel lonely, sad and eventually unloved by many. You tend to fall ill and start isolating yourself leading to bad health issues. For example your brain tends to disfunction and results in bad memory and memory loss . Your life span tends to shorten due to your sickness . However, people who are socially connected to family, friends and community are found to be happy,healthy and loved. That is, it is found that their brain functions perfectly , sharper and better. They live longer compared to those who are not loved. Hence, when "love " a small 4 letter word can have a really vast benefit on our health and all, we should take it seriously like the Harvard Study of Adult Development stated.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the above statement by Mark Twain extracted from the passage says that there is no time in life for bickering, heartburning but there is only time for loving and to speak out because instead of letting the loneliness kills us at the end it's better to make more good connection and be happy and live long with good memories. There is no time for argues and apologies at the part of our life where we will mentally and physically exhausted during old days so therefore getting connected to the right people who we can count on and who will not only protect our body and health but also protects out brain with love and care even though the time is limited.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the passage titled "What makes a good life",by Robert Waldinger ,"There isn't time ,so brief is life,for bickering , apologies, heartburning as it cannot only limit us from bounding with our families and friends but also isolate us. Inorder to live a good life we must learn to let go of things that requires constant apology and heartburning instead we need to forgive and try to connect with families with whom we share our bitter experiences because a person who bears grudges are said to suffered in term of health as mentioned in the passage
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ReplyDelete→ From the passage title" what makes a good life" by Robert Waldinger,The Harvard study of Adult development, has stated a quote by
ReplyDeleteMark Twain "There isn't a time, so brief is life for bickering,apologies, heart burnings and calling to accounts. There is only time for loving and but instant, so to speak for that. It say's that life is a short journey, we don't have much time for all those arguments, calling to accounts and being angry, We only have
time for loving. We don't have much time for us to chasing after wealth and getting rich,it will not decide our longevity and happy life. As stated in passage our happy, and longevity of life will be decided by how socially connected we are with people. And as stated in the passage we can spend our time loving by replacing screen time with people time or livening up a stale relationship by doing new things together, long walks or date nights.
According to the quotes of Mark Twain,"There isn't a time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, Heartburning, calling to accounts "in the passage,"what makes a good life,we don't have time to hate others.we need to focus on building good and strong relationships as in the passage it has given that people who are socially connected have healthy and happy life.People who were in unhappy relationship are unhealthy and sad.It is crucial for us to built a good relationships for good life.
ReplyDeleteIt gives us sharper memories when we grow old and gives less physical pain.
According to the quotation given in the passage titled "What makes a good life?" by Robert Waldinger, The Harvard study of Adult Development explains that a person's life is short to waste it bickering, apologizing, heartburning or calling to account because having a bad relationships makes them socially disconnected and become lonely. According to the passage, people who are more isolated than they want to be from others find that they are less happy, their health declines earlier in midlife, their brain functioning declines sooner and they live shorter lives then people who are not lonely.
ReplyDeleteWe need to love and care for each other because living in the midst of good, warm relationships is protective. High conflict relationships, for example, without much affection, turn out to be very bad for our health, perhaps even worse than getting divorced. Having a good relationships will lead to a good life because it is stated in the passage that the people who fared the best were the people who leaned into relationships, with family, with friends, with community.
According to the quote by Mark Twain in the passage that states"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that", explains that there is no time in our life so we should not waste our life for apologies, heartburning and all because it makes us isolated from our loved ones. We have to forgive and try to reconnect with our friends and family. Having socially connected makes us healthier and live longer and even the memories stays sharper. Having a good relationship will grow into a healthy octogenarian and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteFrom the above passage "What makes a good life" by Robert Waldinger has closed the passage with s quote of Mark Twain. If I comment on the above statement then it explains that life is too short for argument, for saying sorry,calling to one's account. Life is short so live a happy and healthier life. If we want to live happy life than we should have good relation and good social connections. It is found that people who have more social connections they are the happier and healthier people then people with less social connections. When we have good relations and good quality of relationships as we grow old, at 80s, when we have more physical pain we can call to account to our partners because of love. But people without good relations and good quality of relationships suffer more from physical pain and have more emotional pain. So more than anything they to make good relations with everyone.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the quote " There isn't a time, so brief is life, for bickering, apology, Heartburning and calling to accounts. There is only time for loving and but an instant, so speak for that " by Mark Twin says that in order to live a good life, we must let go of things that requires an apology and Heartburnings instead we need to forgive and try to reconnect with families with whom we share a bitter experiences because a person who bears grudges are said to suffer interms of rage as mentioned in the passage. Additionally, as far Herbert
ReplyDeletestudy, the people in the bad relationship can't count on other ones, those are the people who experience earlier memory decline. Therefore, we need to invest our time and energy in building good close relationship because social connection is good for our healthy body in a long run. The speaker notifies that we can replace screen time with people time and reconnect with friends and families by doing something nice to have a happier and healthier life.
According to the quote of Mark Twain; "There isn't time for, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning, calling to account". This statement states that it not only breaks the bound between families, friends and with the ones who are close to us but also isolate us. To live a good life, we have to forget the things that constant apologies and heartburns and with that we have to forgive the ones who we have shared a bitter experiences and bear the grudges as well. After all there is no time for heartburns and apologies.
ReplyDeleteFrom the passage title " What makes a Good Life by Robert Waldinger, The Harvard study of Adult Development, A quote by Mark Twain, "There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heart burning, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that", states that our life is short and we have limited time for bickering, apologies and heart burning. As mentioned in the passage a bad relation is worst than divorce because living in high conflict relation is really bad for our health. And we have only time for love. For example, those people who are more connected with their friends, family and community are more happier than people who are less well connected. People who are more isolated from others are less happy, their health decline, their brain functioning decline and they live shorter lives than people who are not lonely as mentioned in the passage.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the statement" There isn't time , so brief is life ,for bickering, apologies, heartburnings , calling account. There is only time for loving and but an instant so to speak for that " our life is too short" and there is not time for bickering apologies and heartburnings . We have to make good bond with peoples around us as "good relationship keep us happier and healthier." Being socially connected to family, to friends, to community , are happier, they're physically healthier, and they live longer than people who are less well connected. It is important for us to build good relationship because it gives us sharper memories and less physical pain. For example in the passage, it has mentioned that there will be high conflict marriages without much affection, truns out to be very bad for our health, perhaps worse then divorced. That's why we should give love and time to one another instead of arguing and asking for apologies as " good life is built with good relationship".
ReplyDeleteAccording to the quote " There isn't a time, so brief is life, for bickering, apology, Heartburning and calling to accounts. There is only time for loving and but an instant, so speak for that " by Mark Twin says that in order to live a good life, we must let go of things that requires an apology and Heartburnings instead we need to forgive and try to reconnect with families with whom we share a bitter experiences because a person who bears grudges are said to suffer interms of rage as mentioned in the passage.
ReplyDeleteAdditional people having bad relationship will be having physical disorders and it will lead up being Loneliness. Loneliness can affect our brain and it will led to physical declines , the study had also showed that having a higher quality relationship is better compared to the number of connection we have.
According to the proverb that is given in the above passage "What makes a good life " by Robert Waldinger, The Harvard study of Adult Development states that our human life are very brief and short and because our life is brief there isn't enough time for bickering, apologies etc...It is seen that people who are having bad relationship with other people are left with loneliness and they are left isolated from their loved ones. Instead of doing bickering, apologies, heartburning if we love to others during the short period of our life it is seen that good relationship are developed and as a result those people are lived long life and they are seen even healthy in their octogenarian. It is also stated in the above passage that people who are happy in their life are found having sharper memories as compare to people who are unhappy in their life. Over 75 years of research Harvard study had shown that the people who are seen happy and healthy in their life are those who leaned in the relationship with their families and their friends. Thus we should always love and make good relationship with others inorder to have happy and healthy life.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the passages,There isn't a time , so brief is life for bickering apologize heart burning and calling to account.There is only time for loving and but instant,so to speak for that , by Mark Twaina , we came to know that in our life it doesn't matter how many friends and family do you have but a good relationship and good family bond matters slot . So our life is determined by the equality of relationship and social connection . In this modern days being apart from the good quality of relationship makes us a loneliness and isolated which effects our brain and physical health. people who are socially connected are always physically healthier and they live a long life.
ReplyDeleteAs per the quote from the passage, titled "What makes a good life" by Robert Waldinger."There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so speak, for that." There isn't time,so brief is life life, for bickering , apologies, heartburning as it cannot only limit us from bonding with our friends and families but also isolate us from them. To have a good and better life, we all must persue to let go the things which we be crying out for apologies and heartburnings. We all must know how to forgive and try to connect up with our families and friends with whom we express our secret feelings because those people who isolate themself from their families and friends, they will feel happy and feel loneliness and their health will decline and they live shorter to those who are most socially connected to family, to friends, to community are happier, they are physically healthier and live longer.
ReplyDeleteTo be into a good relationship, the people who dared the best were the people who leaned into relationships with family, with friends, with community.
According to the passage above,"what makes a good life" by Robert waldinger stated a proverb that "There isn't time",so brief is life, for bickering,apologies,heart burning,callings to account. There is only time for loving,and but an instant, so to speak,for that. So to speak on this , the life we are living right now is only for a short duration where there is no time to waste it in a way like bickering, apologizing to eachother, callings to account. To make it brief and worth, we should be socially connected as the above passage clearly mention that those people who are socially connected to eachother are the most happiest and healthier people. To live a happy and a healthier life ahead,we should provide love to the people and be socially connected. Even in old the ages,who are socially connected and who have a good relation with people around them are often happier and healthier unlike the people who lack the connections. The more we build the connection, the more we make memories and spend a happy life and Can be a healthy octogenarian.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the above statement,
ReplyDelete"There isn't time,so brief is life,for bickering, apologies,heart burning and calling to account.there is only time for loving.By mark twain, we know that we don't have much time for arguments, apologize, heart burning and holding grudges for that instead we only got time for loving.
We should love one another and give time to them instead of arguing and forgive each other.one should not hold grudges,argue instead of that u should learn to love everyone as life is very brief.
According to the quote by Mark Twain in the passage that states"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak. It means that our life is very short and there is no time for bickering, apologies, and heartburning and it can isolated us from our friend, family and partners. In order to live a good life we must learn to let go of things that require constant apologies and heart burning.People who are socially connected are always physically healthier and they live a longer life. As compared to other people who are socially disconnected and isolated from other.Those people who are socially connect are lived long life and they are seen even healthy in their octogenarian. Therefore, we need to invest our time and energy in building good and close relationship because it helps in a long run.
ReplyDeleteAccording to quotes by Mark Twain in a passage title "what makes a good life" By Robert Waldinger It simply means that our life is too short with a fleeting time to love and to waste for bickering, apologies, heartburning, and calling to account. Loving people can fetch us a good and warm relationship as according to the passage good relationship keeps us happier and healthier. People socially connected with friends, family and to community are happier and physically healthier and lives longer than those who isolates themselves. Having a quality of relationship where we can count on one another helps our memories to stays sharper as good relationships don't just protect our bodies but also protect our brain as mentioned above in the passage. And if we waste Precious time for bickering, apologies, heartburning, and calling to account Which just brings conflicts. And according to above passage it turns out that living in the midst of conflicts is very bad for our health example like high-conflict marriages without much affection is worse than getting divorce. Isolating ourselves and holding grudges which leds to decline of our health and brain in midlife instead of this if we replace screentime with people time and reach out to family with whom we haven't spoken in to a years because those all-to-common family feuds take a terrible toll on people who hold gurdges.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the passage above,"what makes a good life"by Robert waldinger stated a quote that "there isn't time ,so brief is life ,for backering ,calling to account.There is only time for loving ,and but an instant ,so to speak ,for that,life is too short ,so we don't have time for isolate ourself from people around.our wealth and knowledge don't give us happy life .to have good life we need good relationship with our friends, family, life partner and society.people who have good relationship with society and friends will live longer life whereas people who are not connected to the society and friends are usually be unhappy and they live shorter life. There for we have to give love to people around and have to be in connected with them inorder to have a good life tell our old age
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ReplyDeleteAccording to the passage titled " There isn't time , so brief is life , for bickering , apologies , heartburning , calling to account . There is only time for loving , and but an instant so to speak , for that . " authored by Robert Waldinger , It says that our life is a short journey , we shouldn't waste it by arguments , calling to accounts and being angry , we should be having a time in loving . We don't have much time for chasing after wealth and getting rich because it will not decide our long longevity and happy life . As it is started in a passage , our happy life and longevity of life will be decided by how socially connected we are with people around us . We can spend our time as replacing screen time with people time or livening up a stale relationship by doing something new together , long walks or date night , or reaching out to that family members who you haven't spoken to in years
ReplyDeleteIn the passage " What makes a good life " by Robert Waldinger has stated a quote by mark Twain, "There isn't time , so brief, is life, for bickerings, apologies, heart burnings callings to account. there is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak" for that inorder to live a good life we must learn to let go of things that requires constant apologies and heart burnings we need to forgive and try to connect with families. Apart from the quality of realtionship the study showed that loneliness kills in our modern society. Loneliness can affect our brain and it will lead to physical declines
ReplyDeleteAccording to the quote by Mark Twain in the passage that states " There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburning, calling to account because there is only time for loving each other and build up the strong relationship and even make memories.
ReplyDeleteHaving a good relationship make life happier and healthier and closer with sociaty and people who are more isolated and always have to beair with the sorrow, their health decline and they live short life and have to forgive other.
In the passage " What makes a good life" by Robert waldinger has stated a quote by Mark Twain,"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that". It explains that our life is too brief or short to waste it bickering, apologizing, heartburning or calling to account . We should make time for love which makes our relationships happier and healthier. According to the passage, Social connections are really good for us,and it kills our loneliness as those people who are socially connected to family, friends, community,are happier, physically healthier and also live longer than people who are less connected and are being isolated.Relationships not only protect our bodies but also protects our brain. The people who are in good relationships have sharp memories whereas people who are in bad relationships have weak memories. Thus, good life is built with good relationships.
ReplyDeleteThe above statement from the passage "what makes a good life" by Robert waldinger, states that there is limited time for us to fight and argue with each other which makes people isolated and gain grudges. Those people who gain grudges and not socially connected are less happy, their health declines in midlife and live shorter than people who are more socially connected. So in this short journey of life we are to love each other, be socially connected and build good relationship. According to the passage, people who have good relationship are those who are happy and healthy In their octagenarians. So In order to have happy life we have to build good relationship by loving and talking with our family members which we have never talk once in a year.
ReplyDeleteAs mentioned in the passage which is "What Make a good life " by Robert Waldinger which was stated by Mark tawin ,"there isn't time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heartburnining because life is very precious to each and everyone and when we are still alive, we have to make a good friends and good relationship to keep a ourselves,
ReplyDeletefrom loneliness and isolated and keep a good socially connection with our communities. Additionally if we remain silent and lonely and isolated, we have to face more consequences by ourselves and when we can’t face such consequences, it will lead to depression and anxiety. And what makes a good life is that as mentioned in passage that good relationship keeps us happier and healthier as for example like in passage it says that if we have good life partner, even at our worst circumstances such as personal family problems and sickness, they will console us in us and their love and care will make us feel light ,whereas For example,in the passage,it has been mentioned that people who are having high-conflict marriage lives without much love and affection turn out to be bad for their physical health as well as mental health.People who were in unhappy relationships, on the days when they reported more physical pain,it was magnified by more emotional pain compared to the people who were in happy and loving relationships. And good relationship don't just protect our bodies, they protect our brains as if we have good relationships will have lots of memories which is unforgettable. Even lf we have more relatives and friends but when we face the difficulties and need of their and if they are not willing to help us by facing the difficulties together it means that they are not good quality of friends and relatives as mentioned in passage that How many friends you have doesn’t matter but the quality of your close relationship that matter. In order to have a good life, we need a good relationship to keep a social connection.
According to the quote said by mark twain, there isn't time, so brief is life for bekerings, apologies,heartburnings, calling to account.there is only time for loving,it mean that our life is too short, there isn't time for us to be angry, to argue with others and become isolated. People who tends to be isolated will have no meaning full and satisfying lives, because their health decline earlier in midlife,their brain functioning decline sooner and they stay short lives but the people who have good relationship and socially connected will have happier and healthy life.and living in the midst of good,warm relationship is protective.once we had followed our man all the way into their 80s,we wanted to look back at them at mid life and to see if we could predict who was going to grow into a happy, healthy octogenarian and who wasn't,And when we gather together everything we know about them at age 50,it wasn't their middle age cholesterol levels that predicted how they were going grow old.it was how satisfied they were in their relationship.
ReplyDelete"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heart burning, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and an instant, so to speak, for that." Mark Twain
ReplyDeleteRobert. W had talked about how people can invest most of their time and value in their life. Some people had says that the life goal of people is to be successful and famous to have a good life. After the 75 years of study on how to make a good life, it suggested that having a good quality of relationship with family, beloved person, friends and with other staff people...give us a happier and healthier life. Even our negative problems such as stress, depression, anxiety, loneliness, and pain will be reduced 7 times more than before. And those people who are isolated, and have toxic relationships are said to be less happy than those who have a good quality relationship with people. People who are sad person will live less than those stayed happy. Therefore, spending more time on good relationships and loving more can give us a happy life. We should be able to forgive, love more and avoid negative actions, thoughts, and toxic relationships which give us less happiness and respect. And this is the time to speak for what is right and love more people for the best quality of the relationship to live a healthy and happiest life. Thank you
According to the above statent by mark twain extracted from the passage says that there is no time in life for arguments, heartburning and calling to account but there is only time for loving and to speak out as life is determined by the quality of relationship social connection
ReplyDeleteApart from the quality of relationship the study showed that instead of letting the loneliness kill us at the it's better to be connected with everyone and be happy and also can have a long life with good memories
The above statement of the passage "What makes a good life" explains that life is too short for fighting and bearing grudges against each other which only makes relationship terrible. It creates more distances from your loved ones and making you lonelier and sad. Instead of these , there should be only time for love and showing affection towards loved ones by going on a long walks or date nights and even catching up with whom you haven't met in years. This way strengthens our relationship in our life. When you build a good relationship, it keeps us happier and healthier. Social connection kills loneliness and also protects our brain. Close relationship are good for our health and we'll being.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the passage “what makes a good life ” by Robert waldinger, the Harvard study of Adult Development, has stated one quote by Mark Twin which states “There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburning, calling to account. There is only time for loving and but an instant, so to speak, for that”. These extract from the passage stated that our life lessons does not depend upon wealth or frame or working harder and harder,the only thing which makes a good life is a good relationships keeps us happier and healthier. There are many lessons we learn in our life from our relationships but the most important are social connection makes a person more connected to family, to friends and physically healthier. Having a social connection keeps a person away from loneliness. Quality of our close relationships that matters keeping a warm and good relationship is protective and it helps grow happy and healthy life till old-age. Having a good relationship does not protect our bodies it protects our brains which keeps us mentally healthy and happy life.
ReplyDeleteIn the passage " what makes a good life" by Robert waldinger has stated a quote by Mark Twain,"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that. life is too short for fighting and bearing grudges against each other which only makes relationship terrible. It creates more distances from your loved ones and making you lonelier and sad. Instead of these , there should be only time for love and showing affection .Having a good relationship make life happier and healthier and closer with sociaty and people who are more isolated and always have to beair with the sorrow, their health decline and they live short life and have to forgive other.As mentioned in the passage a bad relation is worst than divorce because living in high conflict relation is really bad for our health. And we have only time for love. That is without enough social connection with family, friends and community, you feel lonely, sad and eventually unloved by many. You tend to fall ill and start isolating yourself leading to bad health issues. So lastly Social connection kills loneliness and also protects our brain. Close relationship are good for our health and we'll being.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the Robert Waldinger the passage state that there isnt time, so brief in life for bieking, apologies, heartburning, calling to account. There is only time for loving , and but an instant, so to speak. The most happily partnered man and woman reported in their 80s that on the day when they had more physical pain, their mood stayed just as happy. But the people who were in unhappy relationship on that day when they reported more physical pain, it was magnified by more emotional pain and then the people in relationships where they feel they really can't count on the other one , those are the people who experienced earlier memory decline. And those good relationship they don't have to be smooth all the time.
ReplyDeleteSome of our octogenarian couples could bicker with eachother day in and day out, but as long as they felt they could really count on other when the going got tough, those argument s didn't take a toll in their memories.
According to the quotation from the passage titled " what makes a good life" by Robert Waldinger The Harvard Study of Adult Development states that we have limited time for bickering, apologizing, heartburning and fighting because having a bad relationship makes us lonely and loneliness turns out to be toxic. According to the passage,the people in relationship where they feel they can't count on the other one are those who experience earlier memory decline and live short life. We have to love and care each other in this limited time. We have to build good relationship with everyone beacuse having a good relationship keep us happy and healthy. According to passage, people who are socially constructed to family, friends and community are happier and physically healthy.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the passage title,"what makes a good life" by Robert Waldinger a quote"There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heart burnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that" said by Mark twain, life is short to be angry or sad, we don't have time to isolate ourselves from the people who loves us, instead people who are socially connected with friends, families, and communities are physically healthier and they live a long life and even there memories stay sharper. In the other hand people who are not socially connected are not healthy and lives a shorter live. Loneliness kills humans beings, in this short life we don't have time gor hatered and heart burnings there is only time for loving, the quality of your close relationships that matters, it turns out that living in the midst of conflict is really bad for our health. High-conflict marriages, for example; without much affection, turn out to be very bad for our health, perhaps worse than getting divorced and living inthe midst of good warm relationships is protective. Moreover we should spend more time with friends, family and community to build good relations as it keeps our body and mind healthy in octogenarian.
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